The animal kingdom, if taken as an indicator, suggests that affection is indeed a multifaceted phenomenon. While humanity might imbue the process with a level of complexity, partly due to our inclination towards ever-changing coiffures and an array of intricate courtship practices—Valentine’s Day being one such ritual, for better or worse.
However, we are not the sole species that regards procreation with profound seriousness.
Formal Commitments
In 1995, scuba divers in Japan observed enigmatic circular formations on the seabed, which were subsequently identified as the meticulously crafted constructions of male pufferfish belonging to the Torquigener genus. It appears that female pufferfish are receptive to displays of artistic prowess during their romantic pursuits.
The male pufferfish meticulously excavates a symmetrical arrangement of trenches and mounds, adorning the elevated sections with shell fragments. The resultant creation is undeniably striking: an intricate circular pattern etched into the sand, encircling a central area of fine sand ideally suited for egg deposition.

“This circular architecture not only influences mate selection by females but also serves to aggregate fine sand particles within nests, which are crucial for that selection process,” expounded scientists in a 2013 publication detailing the discovery.
The industrious construction of this “throne” for his intended mate occupies the fish for approximately seven to nine days. Post-mating, however, this elaborate artistry is forsaken, with males commencing the entire endeavor anew each reproductive cycle.
Unwavering Attachment
The male deep-sea anglerfish (suborder Ceratioidei) comprehends the imperative of securing a suitable partner in the vast, unlit expanse of the pelagic zone, recognizing the need to maintain a steadfast grip.
He is considerably diminutive in comparison to his female counterpart and lacks the distinctive bioluminescent lure that the female employs to attract and consume her sustenance. Consequently, his paramount objective is to locate a large, luminescent female, to whom he adheres tenaciously with his small, sharp dentition—in certain species, achieving a permanent state of fusion with her physique.
In return for providing access to a lifelong supply of sperm, the female bestows sustenance upon her suitors, as she typically accumulates a considerable number of these diminutive males during her journeys. A symbiotic existence, perhaps?

A Symbol of Devotion
Female argonauts also exhibit significant size disparity compared to their male counterparts; they can attain lengths exceeding 20 centimeters, whereas males reach a mere two centimeters.
The male argonauts compensate for their diminutive stature with their hectocotylus, a specialized appendage designed for detachment and the delivery of sperm to the formidable females from a secure distance.

Researchers documented one of these “detachable penises” exhibiting continued viability and motility for up to seven hours post-separation from water, found actively maneuvering within an empty brood case discovered washed ashore in Sicily. Even after extraction by scientists, it autonomously navigated back to the case, potentially seeking refuge or receptive eggs for fertilization. This demonstrates remarkable persistence.

Deceptive Offerings
Among certain arachnid species, it is customary for prospective male partners to present their intended females with a “nuptial gift”—a form of dowry, typically comprising a silk-enshrouded insect or other delectable morsel. This offering is intended to sufficiently impress the female, thereby persuading her to forgo consuming him.
However, the bridal gift spider (Pisaura mirabilis), so named for its gifting propensities, does not always extend genuine generosity. Scientific investigation revealed that males occasionally present their mates with counterfeit gifts: the hollow exoskeletons of insects or non-nutritive plant fragments.
This stratagem proves sufficiently effective to persist through the evolutionary trajectory of spiders. Nevertheless, it is not an optimal strategy; females eventually discern the subterfuge, thereby curtailing the mating process prematurely. This abbreviated copulation results in diminished sperm transference and a reduction in the deceptive male’s reproductive efficacy when contrasted with those who offer authentic gifts.
Elaborate Displays
The avifauna known as birds of paradise represent a particularly notable instance of sexual selection, often resulting in males adopting aesthetically peculiar forms. It appears that female birds of paradise possess an affinity for ostentatious adornment.
Consider, for example, this specimen. Through eons of striving to captivate the female gaze, it has transformed into what is essentially a black ovoid shape with an expansive, turquoise-hued gape. This morphology is considered the ideal male form. While perhaps unappealing to some, for the Vogelkop lophorina (Lophorina superba), this represents the pinnacle of reproductive presentation.
Stylet Combat
Given that both individuals within a mating dyad possess the capacity for sperm production and gestation, they resolve the roles through a contest utilizing their dual-headed, penis-like stylets, a process strongly resembling fencing. The individual whose stylet inflicts the initial puncture on the other assumes the maternal role for their progeny; however, in the event of a draw, the eggs of both combatants are fertilized.
The forces of evolution bear considerable responsibility for these diverse strategies. Each of these reproductive methodologies persists because it has proven successful, enabling these compatible pairs to translate their “affection” into robust offspring who carry forward their progenitors’ fruitful—and occasionally peculiar—courtship traditions.
